Hey Boston! It Just Snowed. Got Hygge?

Picture of oatmeal, scones, banana bread, winter foods that evoke hygge.

We just got our first substantial snow of the winter in the Boston area. While not a fan of snow, I’m all about the cozy. So I find ways to enjoy the season.

A favorite winter breakfast is oatmeal with maple syrup, walnuts, dried cranberries and vanilla soy milk. I’ve been baking recentlyscones and banana bread. A snack for me and gifts for others.

With all that’s going on in this country at the moment, it’s important to take time for self-care. To gather inner strength. To steady ourselves. Without that we won’t be ready for whatever lies ahead as we enter a new American era.

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The United States is thousands of miles from Denmark. We have very different forms of government and culture. But we have cold weather and dark winters in common. So right now I’m taking something from Danish culture to see me through this time — hygge.

In case you’re not familiar with term, it’s pronounced “hooga” and is about the appreciation and art of coziness. I have seen many different definitions for it, but here is one from Denmark’s tourism website.

In essence, hygge means creating a warm atmosphere and enjoying the good things in life with good people. The warm glow of candlelight is hygge. Friends and family – that’s hygge too. There’s nothing more hygge than sitting round a table, discussing the big and small things in life.

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A blog called Hygge House gives another perspective on the word.

Some refer to hygge as an “art of creating intimacy” (either with yourself, friends and your home). While there’s no one English word to describe hygge, several can be used interchangeably to describe the idea of hygge such as cosiness, charm, happiness, contentness, security, familiarity, comfort, reassurance, kinship, and simpleness.

Danes created hygge because they were trying to survive boredom, cold, dark and sameness and the undefinable feeling of Hygge was a way for them to find moments to celebrate or acknowledge and to break up the day, months or years. With so many cold, dark, days, the simple act of a candle glowing with a cup of coffee in the morning or a home cooked evening meal with friends can make a huge difference to one’s spirit.

We can all define what the word means to us as individuals. For me, right now, it’s about making my home a warm cozy place where I can retreat and gather my thoughts and my calm.

As an introvert, that’s vital. Home is where I recharge. But It’s also a place where I can invite friends and family.

What about you?

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Hamilton Electors: History Has Its Eyes On You

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Let the record show, that on the evening of November 18, 2016, notorious and hateful Vice President-elect Mike Pence was booed by a crowd. He did not move the crowd. He did not sway it. He was booed by it. Much social media posting of the events did ensue. And said booing made me feel better than I have since our most awful election day. History was made.

As you can see, I have been absent from this space since the night before and unable to write except for many angry tweets, retweets and Facebook posts. I have been devastated, fearful, sad and angry. Probably too many emotions than is healthy to feel all at once. But that’s the state of our nation today.

If I look at it from a distance. It’s quite interesting. Someone with the tendencies and temperament of an angry dictator, with no government experience was elected to the presidency of the United States. It makes me feel that anything is possible. There is no stopping anyone from doing anything. Any random person could just become a brain surgeon tomorrow. No experience needed. No rationale. Literally anything can happen anywhere anytime. I could win the lottery. Or aliens could kidnap me. That’s the world we are living in.

Now I don’t want this post to get too long, because it could turn into a rambling mess. Maybe it already is. But writing is my therapy and I need to get out at least some of my feelings about this fiasco of an election.

The booing of Pence happened at “Hamilton,” the musical sensation playing on Broadway. I don’t even understand why he would want to be there. Based on what he and our President-elect stand for, they despise and disrespect most people in the cast (women, people of color, LGBTQ).

Their past statements, actions, choice of Cabinet members and what I know of history, makes me believe that they plan to do great harm to those of us who are members of these communities. Among many other things, David Duke is happy as a clam with the election results. The Klan endorsed them and plans a victory parade. That is not normal or good to say the least. The Klan is a terrorist organization. Trump has not taken a real stand denouncing them or trying to quell the dramatic increase in hate crimes since his election. He merely said to “stop it” on a 60 Minutes interview.

Remember President Obama had to make a long speech denouncing the pastor of his church and ended up leaving his church? Trump questioned his citizenship and disrespected him for his entire Presidency. So much is wrong about this.

Trump’s team has been discussing a Muslim registry and how Korematsu allows it. The case dealt with the interment of Japanese-Americans in the United States during World War II. After reading the case in law school, I remember being shocked learning that the case still stands and has not been overturned.

The internment of Americans on American soil could still happen. Make not mistake. This is a real threat. It may look slightly different than before, but there needs to be a greater awareness and discussion of the dangers of a Trump administration. People say that Trump exaggerates and doesn’t mean what he says. Over decades, Trump has shown us who he is. People should believe him. Remember the quote by Maya Angelou?

When someone shows you who they are believe them; the first time.

A New York Times article from 1922 discusses Hitler. Here is an excerpt.

But several reliable, well-informed sources confirmed the idea that Hitler’s anti-Semitism was not so genuine or violent as it sounded, and that he was merely using anti-Semitic propaganda as a bait to catch masses of followers and keep them aroused, enthusiastic, and in line for the time when his organization is perfected and sufficiently powerful to be employed effectively for political purposes.

A sophisticated politician credited Hitler with peculiar political cleverness for laying emphasis and over-emphasis on anti-Semitism, saying: “You can’t expect the masses to understand or appreciate your finer real aims. You must feed the masses with cruder morsels and ideas like anti-Semitism. It would be politically all wrong to tell them the truth about where you really are leading them.”

Now we know that Hitler was just as cruel and violent as he said he was. Probably worse. The article could not have been more wrong. People didn’t want to believe the truth about Hitler. Just like I believe that people don’t want to believe the truth about Trump. Especially people who think they won’t be impacted either way.

I read an article recently about someone who voted for Trump. The woman said that she felt bad for people of color and the LGBTQ community, but she thought that things would be better for her. This was really scary. She sensed danger for other people, but looked the other way because it wasn’t a problem for her. Although there is, because she is a woman, but she doesn’t seem to understand misogyny.

That is how people get taken away and disappeared.When neighbors look the other way. In Germany and here. And in other countries with dictators. I look at what is happening around us and feel that so many people are sheep and have learned nothing from history. They are following along and ignoring what is being said right to our faces. The people that Trump says he admires are dictators. I believe we are in danger of losing our democracy.

I remember when I was sworn in as an attorney. I don’t remember the exact words, but I swore an allegiance both to the Constitution of Massachusetts and the Constitution of the United States. The enormity of those words resonated very strongly with me. I felt proud and quite patriotic in that moment. I believe in this country. In the Constitution.

In law school, we always had pocket guides to the Constitution, but I hadn’t had one in years. When the ACLU was giving away free pocket guides after Khizr Khan’s speech, I got one. I have been thinking about it a lot.

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About what it allows in the face of a monster being elected President. What is the recourse within the law? What does history show us?

Hamilton” could not have come along at a better time. Maybe it will help some to think about history more.

At the end of the show, Brandon Victor Dixon, who plays Aaron Burr, read a statement addressing Pence. The New York Times reported that the show’s creator Lin-Manuel Miranda and others involved with the show wrote the statement. Here’s part of the statement.

We, sir — we — are the diverse America who are alarmed and anxious that your new administration will not protect us, our planet, our children, our parents, or defend us and uphold our inalienable rights,” he said. “We truly hope that this show has inspired you to uphold our American values and to work on behalf of all of us.

Trump tweeted a response.

The Theater must always be a safe and special place.The cast of Hamilton was very rude last night to a very good man, Mike Pence. Apologize!

Many of us have legitimate fears about his Presidency. He has not apologized about the Klan, Bannon or many other things that he could apologize for. He has not tried to ease our concerns or make us feel safe. When we tell him that we feel unsafe, he tells us to apologize! This man is irrational and ignorant.

His supporters are irrational and ignorant. Among other things, they are protesting Starbucks by buying more of their coffee. That is not how a boycott works. Now his supporters are boycotting “Hamilton.” A play that nobody can get tickets to. That is not how a boycott works.

I learned about booing incident last night right after leaving a production of Miranda’s first hit play. “In the Heights” was performed at Berklee Performance Center. I loved it! There was also an interesting reaction to the election during and after this performance. Here are part of the lyrics to the song “96,000.”

Yo
If I won the lotto tomorrow
Well I know I wouldn’t bother goin’ on no spendin’ spree
I pick a business school and pay the entrance fee!
Then maybe if you’re lucky
You’ll stay friends with me!
I’ll be a businessman, richer than Nina’s daddy!
Donald Trump and I on the links and he’s my caddy!
My money’s makin’ money, I’m goin’ from po’ to mo’ dough!
Keep the bling, I want the brass ring, like Frodo!

There was an audible gasp in the audience with Trump’s name mentioned. Then Trump’s name was mentioned a second time and everyone cheered. Because there was what appeared to be an appropriate ad lib. I couldn’t hear it, but it appeared to be around the lyrics, “Politicians be hatin’  Racism in this nation’s gone from latent to blatant.”

Then there was an extra song at the end of the show and discussion about how rehearsal on the night of the election was so difficult for the cast members. Everyone was grieving. And I still am too.

The only thing giving me hope is that people are out protesting and the possibility of a game changer by the Electoral College. The Electors don’t vote until December 19th. One month from today.

Many may have heard of the Change.org Petition to the Electoral College Electors. At the time of this writing, it is 21,916 signatures shy of the 4,500,000 needed. The goal is to make Hillary Clinton President with their votes. One of the reasons being that she won the popular vote.

The Electors votes are the final determination of who is President and Vice President according to Article II, Section 1 of the Constitution.

There is also a group of Electors, calling themselves the Hamilton Electors who are now coming together to try and save our country.  Seriously, this is all I am hanging on to. One of these scenarios.

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Election Day Eve 2016

Collage showing pictures of election day cakes and cupcakes.

Over the years, I’ve written about many elections. I was very excited about the election while I was supporting Bernie Sanders in the primary. After that, not so much.

Trump is an abomination and I will leave it at that. Since Massachusetts has early voting, I voted already for Hillary Clinton. I wasn’t particularly happy about voting for her, but she is the only sane choice. And again, I will leave it at that.

The campaigns have stressed me out and I’m horribly nervous about tomorrow. I have never felt worse about an election. Which is probably why this is my only real election post. And it’s still kind of not a real election post. But it’s all that I have in me to write.

The best thing that I can say about this election is the resurgence of election cakes. I baked one back in 2007 and blogged an election cake recipe on BoomerGirl.com. That blog exists in a different form now and my post is long gone. So much has changed since 2007!

Luckily, the Wayback Machine exists and I was able to find the archived version. The pictures of the cake aren’t there, but you can still read the post. I’m so glad to find my recipe, because I thought it was lost forever.

Maybe I’ll try adapting it again. Because as I recall, there was room for improvement. Assuming we survive the aftermath of this election. God help us all.

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It’s Massachusetts Farmers Market Week!

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It’s time to support our local farmers. Governor Charlie Baker proclaimed that this coming week, August 7 -13 is Farmers Market Week.

If you’re not here in the Bay State, it’s a national effort too! According to the USDA, there are over 8500 farmers markets across the country.

Stacked Zucchinis on the left and persimmons on the right.

Here in Massachusetts, according to the press release, we have “approximately 248 summer and fall farmers’ markets and 40 winter farmers’ markets ….” There is an interactive map listing all the farmers market in the state, so you can find one near you.

Going to work I take the Red Line to South Station, so I pass the Dewey Square Farmers Market every Tuesday and Thursday. It couldn’t be any easier, so I have been buying fresh produce and flowers there on a regular basis. Also, on occasion, I stop by Hanson Farm in Bridgewater.

Maybe this week, I’ll buy something a bit different. What about you?

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Prince Gave Me Religion

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When I heard that Prince died, I was in shock and in transit. Between home and work. When I got on the train, my hands were shaking as I texted my friend the unbelievable and sad news.  So many thoughts swirled in my head all at once. I thought he was alright. He was supposed to be recovering from the flu. Not dead.

Now I am even more grateful that I saw Prince perform live in 2004, when he was here in Boston. The chance to see him came out of the blue. In the middle of the workday, a friend and co-worker told me that she had just gotten tickets and asked if I wanted to go that night.

Did I want to go?! Of course I wanted to go! It was probably the best show of my life. He played for three hours non-stop. His band took a break and he kept going. Playing the guitar alone and talking to all of us in the audience. He gave that show his all. It was amazing.

When I heard that Prince died, I flashed back to college. It was around 1986 and I had tried in vain to win tickets to his concert. I used to be quite good at winning radio station contests and had hoped that my luck would continue. I didn’t have the money to buy tickets, so winning was the only way that I could possibly attend the concert. I didn’t win. I will never forget that moment of realization that I wasn’t going to the concert — sitting at a table in Usdan cafeteria practically in tears and inconsolable. Thinking I will never see Prince and my life is horrible.

When I heard that Prince died, I flashed back to high school and had to laugh. I remembered being at home with a new Prince poster on the wall in my room. He was dripping wet in the shower, wearing a black bikini and a very provocative look on his face. My father walked in to the room. Looked at the picture. Shook his head and walked out.

I was not raised in the church, so I did not learn most of the things that most church-going kids know. Like the Lord’s Prayer. Yup. Prince taught me the Lord’s Prayer. The only reason I can even pretend to recite it today is because I played Controversy so many times. I even feel guilty knowing it, because of how I learned it. While I was playing that song, Dirty Mind, D.M.S.R., Let’s Pretend We’re Married and so many other songs from his many albums that I had back then, my thoughts were anything but pious.

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Since Prince died, I’ve read so many articles about him and how he was so much more than his music. Especially for those that knew him well. Prince truly cared about people and the world and wanted to make it a better place. He was a philanthropist in secret and now so many of his good works are coming to light. He was a fan of the Black Lives Matter movement and supported them without any public acknowledgement.

Prince quietly was a force behind #Yes We Code, an organization founded to help young people of color learn to code, so they have the skills to be part of the tech industry. The more I learn about Prince, the more I like and admire him.

Seeing all the fans in Minnesota talking about Prince as one of their own reminds us all of the regional nature of the United States. It says something about his character that he stayed in Minnesota. He didn’t forget where he came from and stayed centered no matter how famous he became.

There’s a great article on Yahoo! where entertainment industry insiders reflect on their encounters with Prince. Singer-songwriter Louise Goffin wrote about the time she got to dance with Prince at a party.

I was on the stairs near the ladies room, and out of nowhere I see Prince standing around, and shy as can be. All of a sudden Sex Machine by James Brown comes on and I look over at him and he looks at me and says “you know this?” I say “of course I know this, I wasn’t born yesterday!” And he looks up devilishly and says… “wanna dance?” and reaches out to grab my hand. I’m losing my mind, not believing what’s happening and he leads me down the stairs to the dance floor (disco lights, the whole bit), and we’re bumping into people who at first act annoyed and then turn around and see its him. I’m hearing some people I know say “look it’s Prince! and then a second later, saying oh my God, it’s Louise!” Its the truth. I danced with Prince to James Brown’s Sex Machine.

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As a food blogger, one of my favorite stories is about food and from an article on Vulture from Prince’s former butler.

I have a lot of great memories but the one that made me laugh was there was one night where I got a call at about 3 am in the morning and he wanted breakfast for 14 people. I was the only butler on duty during that graveyard shift. He asked for 14 omelets and 14 orders of pancakes. I called everyone in the casino and had all the cooks running to make this order while I made the table. I had to serve the whole breakfast at now 4am in the morning by myself. I came up with the two carts full of food trying to plate it as fast as I can when Prince stood up from his chair and walked over to my cart. He grabbed a plate of pancakes and started helping me serve.

With all these new stories coming out, we are all being flooded with many feelings, memories and emotions. Based on what those closest to Prince have to say, he would want his death to inspire us to do better and “level-up” by pushing ourselves to the next level. Figuring out what is next for each of us and then actually doing it. Because he certainly always did.

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Flickr Photo Credits: Top photo by Derek Wolfgram. Middle photo by Jason Lei.