Recently Read: Be Ready When the Luck Happens

If you’re looking for a good book, I highly recommend Ina Garten’s memoir, “Be Ready When the Luck Happens.” I truly enjoyed it and felt inspired enough by it to write this post. It’s one of those books where you’re sorry to see it end. But luckily, Ina Garten aka “Barefoot Contessa” is still around and we can enjoy more books from her and her wonderful recipes.

While reading, I was reminded that when my friends and I cooked for our dinner club, Ina Garten’s recipes were a group fave. And reading about her life made me like her even more!

It’s so interesting how when looking back over a career, the parts of it usually seem connected and even inevitable. But when you see how decisions were made and things happened in real time, it can seem quite random.

Her career was definitely not inevitable at all. If she weren’t so brave, curious and up for any challenge, things could have gone in a million different directions.

She was a policy wonk in Washington, D.C. before deciding to randomly buy Barefoot Contessa, a specialty grocery shop. She always loved food and entertaining and worked extremely hard on whatever captured her attention.

One of the things that I loved most was how she would always go back to a favorite saying by her husband, Jeffrey. “You never know your good breaks from your bad ones.” What seems like bad luck at first, can end up being good. And the opposite also holds true. We never know until some time passes.

Reading this book makes me want to get her first book, The Barefoot Contessa Cookbook, which  celebrated its 25th Anniversary, with updated recipes!

And speaking of anniversaries, today is my 20 year blogging anniversary! While I don’t blog as much as before, it’s pretty wild to think about all that has happened in 20 years. It’s truly a different world.

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A Post For My Mom

This is a picture of my mom from a Christmas past. I’m not sure which year, but it was probably at least 15 years ago.

Today would have been my mom’s 86th birthday, but she passed away this past October 25th. It’s still surreal to not have her around. To not be able to talk to her. We were so close.

Last year was especially difficult for my mom. She was in and out of the hospital and different rehab facilities. On repeat. But she always kept her same sense of humor through it all.

This past holiday season was the first one without her and the firsts without her will continue. I struggled to find this picture and to write a title for this post. I struggled to write her obituary.

It feels strange to write this blog post, because I haven’t blogged since May. When my father died, it was really hard. But I still had my mom. And that made a huge difference. Now they are both gone.

I still have my brother and lots of family and friends, so I’ve had a lot of support. But things will never be the same after losing both parents. I have a ton of wonderful memories and they instilled in me a love of life. So I’m looking forward to the next chapters of my life. But I’m still mourning the previous ones.

Resist: Dates + Ways

resist with protests

One of my aunts just sent this list of national protests on our family text. If you’re looking for ways to resist our current Administration, then maybe you can join in. Along with continuing to call your Representatives. I’ve called mine a couple of times recently.

The protests today already passed, but on February 28th, you could choose not to spend any money.

From March 7 – 14, many will choose not to buy from Amazon. And on March 14th, some will choose to strike and not work for 24 hours.

It’s up to each individual to decide how to resist, but all of us can be more intentional about where we choose to spend our money.

For me, it sometimes comes down to the “ick factor.” Do I feel “the ick” when I associate myself with this organization? Last month I finally quit Twitter for good. I could no longer deal with supporting that platform. Now I’m figuring out the rest. What about you?