My paternal cousin Marshall Johnson died this past week. It was way too soon. He was way too young. This picture, from much happier days, shows him with his mother at our cousin’s wedding.
He’s with his mom again now and his father. Along with many aunts and uncles, including my father. And some other cousins who died even younger.
When my father died and my mom and I went to the hospital right after, Marshall was there with us. He was there for all of us in my immediate family many times before and many times after. How do I describe such a big presence?
It’s Valentine’s Day, so maybe the best way to talk about him starts there. With love. The day usually focuses on romantic love, but it’s also about love for family and friends. Marshall had a big heart.
He was always one for big celebrations with family and friends. The bigger the celebration the better. He was someone who extended himself to his immediate family, extended family, friends and co-workers. But he wouldn’t stop there. Then he’d also welcome the family, extended family and friends of the first group!
I mean he would go big with invitations and bring everyone into the fold. There would be lots of food, music and an atmosphere of fun and joy. Big gatherings were his thing – backyard barbecues, picnics at a Boston area parks, Super Bowl parties, birthday parties. All kinds of parties. He loved to party!
I have to admit, as an introvert, sometimes the sheer number of people that could be anticipated would be overwhelming to me. I attended many of the gatherings, but not all of them.
Something that I learned and especially appreciated about him over more recent years was that he would truly see and celebrate you as an individual. It didn’t always have to be a big event.
When I got a food writing gig with WGBH, I was so excited! And so was Marshall! He was genuinely happy for me and wanted to celebrate my win by treating me to dinner. I chose Myers + Chang and we had a lovely time.
I thought there would be more time with him. It’s a small circle of people who’ll celebrate your wins and be there at times of extreme loss too. My father was one. Marshall was one. My heart hurts losing both of them so recently. It’s hard to process it all. Writing through it is a start.
Marshall had a lot of extreme health challenges over the last several years. But he beat so many and came back. He was so strong. His most recent health struggles were just too much. I hope he is at peace now. He can finally rest.
I hope he knows how much he will be missed and how much he was loved.
12 thoughts on “Rest In Peace Marshall Johnson”
So sorry for your loss, a loss made bigger by the kind of person he was but how fantastic to have had him in your life. ❤️
Ilva – Thank you. Yes, it was a blessing to so many of us to have him in our lives.
I’m just finding out about Marshall passing on!!!! I Grew up in Franklin Field Projects and I Marshall and his family. It’s so tough to hear about childhood friends passing on. But I am so happy to say that we were from a different generation!!!! Again my prayers are definitely with the Johnson family!!!!!
Tonu – It’s such a shock. It cuts deep for someone that you knew from way back. Thank you for your prayers!
I will miss u very very much. True friend in my life. Watch over BISCUIT my bro.
Im hurt more than ppl know. He was my brother if u live in ff.
U see him . u see me and Ron v.
RIP my bro. Cb
Curtis – Thank you for your kind words.
KIND WORDS IS NO NEEDED.. HE WAS MY BROTHER IN FF.. IM HURT MORE THAN YOU KNOW MS. JOHNSON…
I’m so sorry. 💔
Sorry for your loss and family.
Valeria – Thank you.
Rest In Peace to my dear friend and family Marshall Johnson we are actually family my son has a son by his briefer. He was a very sweet person who worked hard and loves bringing family and friends together at cookouts at his every summer. We grew up in Franklin Field so everyone that we knew would be celebrating at his house. I’m going to miss him “Rest In Heaven” Marshall😢💔🙏🏾
Mary – Thank you.
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